一个外国友人真实的脱发故事！

holloway

分享啦！ 一个外国友人真实的脱发故事，他是我以前美国上学时候的同学，之前有搞过乐队乐队，经常出去演出，可后来，不知怎么得变秃了，前段时间，在facebook上看到他写的脱发故事，觉得大家都应该来看一看！

holloway

2008年春天。是我生命中最槽糕的一段时期。他原本应该是我最捧的时期。我当时28岁，刚刚从纽约北部的一所大学毕业。我白天在一家音响专卖店做店员，到了晚上，则做我自己的音乐，我有我自己的乐队，经常在纽约市中心周围做表演。一切都是那么的顺利。

早在过去的几年里，我就发现了我的头发开始少量的减少，头皮顶部的头发有点变的稀疏。但是我完全么有在意。在每种角度来说，其实我知道，我的头发将会发生什么，只是我还么有做好接受他的准备。难道注定我要和我父亲一样，做一个秃头男。我记得，当我在镜子中看见我的头发的时候，我总是认为可能是角度或光线，又或者是发型的缘故。我一直欺骗着自己，我仍然有着厚密，光亮的头发。我算了一下，如果之后的5年里头发问题能不再恶化。那么到那时，我将三十出头。我将不会在乎它了。

2008年4月份，我记不得具体是几号了，但我每当回响起那天发生的事情，就仿佛历历在目。那一天成为了我生命中的末日。我当时正在做一场纽约广场上的音乐表演，当我从车里搬出我的键盘时，从车的玻璃上看见了我自己。我顿时无语了。我无法相信玻璃中的我是否真的是我，两边头发已变的光秃，现状看上去像个岛屿。这难道真的是我？我试图给自己编出一连串的借口，也许玻璃反射出来的东西会变得扭曲，等等。晚上回到家，我还是试图的想找出答案，浴室镜子中的我，确实和玻璃反射中的我一样。
在之后的几个月里，我患上了忧郁症。我记得我一个人呆在家的时候就会想念以前的生活，而现在一切都改变了。我会被称为秃头的家伙。当有一天我在超市买东西时，见到一位85岁的老太太，头发都要比我的强。我当时整个人都要奔溃了。

几个月之后，我开始把我自己拉出这个恶性循环的状态，我做了一些调查关于秃头原因，我发现当今脱发是可以被治愈的。这给我希望。最后我在药物治疗，非手术或头发移植中找到了一种适合自己的疗法。

我讲这个故事，是希望让大家知道，脱发问题给我们的心理造成了很大的影响。脱发能够牵涉到我们生活的各个方面。但是，我很幸运，我们活在一个能够对脱发做出对策的时代，药物治疗，非手术治疗以及手术治疗。

holloway

Spring 2008. It was the absolute worst time of my life. And it should have been one of the best times for me. I was 28 years old and had just finished my liberal arts degree at Purchase College just north of New York City. I was managing a video store during the day and doing my music at night playing with bands in and around central new york. Things were going really well. I had always been a shy person–and I basically still am–but I was beginning to come out of my shell socially. I was going out with friends, dating and having fun.

Now I knew my hair had changed a bit over the last few years–the v’s had gotten a little bit deeper and the top was slightly thinner–but I didn’t think too much about it. On some level I knew what was happening but denial is a powerful thing. I wasn’t ready to admit to myself that I was destined to look like my father–a man with a head like glass. I remember catching glimpses of myself in mirrors here and there and thinking that my hair just wasn’t laying right anymore. But I could still disguise it –still maintain the illusion of a full head of hair. I figured I had another five years or so before things got really bad. And by then I would be in my early thirties. I wouldn’t care at that point ( yeah right!)

April 1st 2008. Yes I do remember the exact date. I remember this day like it was yesterday. That day of reckoning (when you finally realize that it’s happening) is a life changing apocalyptic event. One that is forever burned into your psyche–permanently etched into your consciousness. Now for me that realization came when I was doing a gig at a music festival in Marathon NY. I was taking my keyboard out of the car when I saw my reflection in the window. My hair looked funky–funkier than usually. I mean really funky! It was weak and wispy, the recession in the temples looked enormous, and it looked like an island was starting to form in the front. I couldn’t believe it! It wasn’t even me staring back. This has to be some other guy…maybe my balding brother. The denial set it. Car windows are like fun house mirrors–they distort right? I bet that’s all it is. But when I checked things out in the bathroom inside it was the same situation. I messed with it and messed with it to try to get it to look right–all to no avail. It was then that I realized what I guess I had already known: I had crossed that threshold. I now looked like a guy with thinning hair…a balding guy! Full panic mode set it.

Over the next few months I sank into a serious depression–total despondency!. I can remember sitting in my house thinking that it was over. From this point on, my life would never be the same, or so I thought. From now on I would be known as Dave the balding guy. Like somehow it would take over my life and be the thing that defined me over and above everything else. I’d be Dave the balding keyboard player in the bands I played with; Dave the balding manager of the video store; Dave the balding guy of the bunch when my friends and I were out at clubs. And I had hair envy too—big time! All my favorite movie stars: Pacino, DeNiro , Mickey Rourke. They were all guys with beautiful hair—super human hair. I wanted that too–desperately. Life was so unfair. I’d be at the supermarket or mall and I’d see an 85 year old guy with this full head of luxurious hair…better than I had when I was 12 years old. Now if that isn’t a kick in the teeth I don’t know what is. Couldn’t I somehow trade with him I thought. I need that hair more than he does! Damn! The depression was all consuming. I was drinking every night –Johnny Walker black on the rocks. I’d go on these mean two and three day benders just to try to ease the pain and escape form the reality of what was happening. It was a horrific period for me: out in dive bars night after night drinking myself into oblivion, thinking about how I was going to find the guts to go on with my life–or if I even wanted to! I had gotten a speeding ticket during this time and was scheduled to go to court the following month to contest it. I remember thinking: I don’t know if I’ve even going to be around next month! Honestly that is how bad things were.
Well after a few months I began to pull myself out of this downward spiral. I did research and discovered Spencer and The Bald Truth and I learned that it was now possible to successfully treat your hair loss. That gave me hope.
So I tell this story to show people just how profoundly we are affected by this disease of the spirit. Hair loss is something that colors every aspect of our lives. But we are lucky to be living in a time where we can do something about it. There are great options available: drug treatment, non surgical hair replacement and hair transplantation. Just be sure to educate yourself in order to choose the option that’s best for you.

ayumif

脱发能被治愈，是么？说一个看看？

魔力宝贝

不就是植发么

孤情沙漠

这个小伙子日志写的，，像初中生的日记

ayumif

大家都是一样的心情。。。

ayumif

其实植发也不是那么完美，说白了，脱发还是无解的

ayumif

而且植发还这么贵，，一般人哪折腾得起啊

魔力宝贝

楼上说的很有道理

sorrysorry

大家说说，如果让你估计，从你开始进行治疗，到长出并恢复原来头发，不再掉头，   要多久？
  1年 ？ 3 年？   5年？ 还是10年？

bbface

大家说说，如果让你估计，从你开始进行治疗，到长出并恢复原来头发，不再掉头，   要多久？
  1年 ？ 3 年？   5年？ 还是10年？

这个问题，真得很难回答哎

发质最

越快越好啦 当然不过1到2个月对于很多药物来说，都还不能看到效果，我选1年

Wool

那最后结果是治好了还是没治好？ 还是正在治疗ing？

doric20105

关注一下，还是不明白，到底是怎么用针刺的？

doric20105

关注一下，还是不明白，到底是怎么用针刺的？

lovenvu99

路过，关注，关注

andacar

大家还是植发吧，真得对其他方法，不抱什么希望了

精彩人生

存钱 ！植发！

holloway

大家似乎都很关心这个消息嘛  ，下面是具体的方法